On August 13th, instead of the normal classroom setting at Lasalle Taberd, my Tuesday Biblical Greek class was substituted by a special gathering in bác Bảy’s place. Though the class itself has always been exciting and academically fulfilling, this “excursion” in particular was something I’m blessed to experience: it was emotionally enriching.
The lesson
The reading on that day was from Matthew 18, and there was this part:
Greek NT: Nestle 1904 | ΚΑΤΑ ΜΑΤΘΑΙΟΝ 18 1 Ἐν ἐκείνῃ τῇ ὥρᾳ προσῆλθον οἱ μαθηταὶ τῷ Ἰησοῦ λέγοντες Τίς ἄρα μείζων ἐστὶν ἐν τῇ βασιλείᾳ τῶν οὐρανῶν; 2 καὶ προσκαλεσάμενος παιδίον ἔστησεν αὐτὸ ἐν μέσῳ αὐτῶν 3 καὶ εἶπεν Ἀμὴν λέγω ὑμῖν, ἐὰν μὴ στραφῆτε καὶ γένησθε ὡς τὰ παιδία, οὐ μὴ εἰσέλθητε εἰς τὴν βασιλείαν τῶν οὐρανῶν. 4 ὅστις οὖν ταπεινώσει ἑαυτὸν ὡς τὸ παιδίον τοῦτο, οὗτός ἐστιν ὁ μείζων ἐν τῇ βασιλείᾳ τῶν οὐρανῶν. 5 καὶ ὃς ἐὰν δέξηται ἓν παιδίον τοιοῦτο ἐπὶ τῷ ὀνόματί μου, ἐμὲ δέχεται·
King James Bible | Matthew 18 1 At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? 2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, 3 and said, Verily I say unto you, except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. 4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
There raised a utterance: “Who is the greatest in the kingdom?” – and ông Quang gave us some insightful ideas as we approached this question.
A conversion – a turn – is asked of anyone – even to those who have seemingly left everything to follow Jesus , who wish to be in the kingdom of heaven, and that is to “humble oneself as a little child.”
In Jewish society, the notion of “being like little children” might be really different from how we now perceive it. Rather than for their innocence, enthusiasm, delight or simplicity, a Jewish child was here mentioned, more historically logical, for the the fact that they were of no importance in their contemporary society (1): children are of no authority, no power, and no threat. Ông Quang also mentioned that children are receptive, trustful, and obedient to their parents or the adult of authority: just like how Jesus has always been toward the Father.
But what does it mean to humble oneself as a little child? Although there could be many interpretations to that, there are some evidences in the bible itself that delineate what it is really like to be humble.
The Greek word used is ταπεινόω – to humble, to humiliate (2). There are a few more verses in which inflections of ταπεινόω and its family members ταπείνωσις, εως, ἡ and ταπεινός, ή, όν are presented, and among these are two descriptive phrases about Jesus, and Mary:
ἄρατε τὸν ζυγόν μου ἐφ’ ὑμᾶς καὶ μάθετε ἀπ’ ἐμοῦ, ὅτι πραΰς εἰμι καὶ ταπεινὸς τῇ καρδίᾳ, καὶ εὑρήσετε ἀνάπαυσιν ταῖς ψυχαῖς ὑμῶν·
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
ΚΑΤΑ ΜΑΤΘΑΙΟΝ 11:29
ὅτι ἐπέβλεψεν ἐπὶ τὴν ταπείνωσιν τῆς δούλης αὐτοῦ. ἰδοὺ γὰρ ἀπὸ τοῦ νῦν μακαριοῦσίν με πᾶσαι αἱ γενεαί·
For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden: for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed.
ΚΑΤΑ ΛΟΥΚΑΝ 1:48
Ông Quang said therefore to be humble as a little child is to be like Jesus and Mary. It’s not about those characters that you normally thought of a child, it’s not about being innocent, simple, and it’s not about trying to have the traits that a child possesses. Rather, it’s about the status of a child and his total submission to his parents. It’s the perfect submission of the Son to the Father, and of Mary to God, manifested through every single event of their lives. I think it is this principle of total submission that springs moral excellence, and not the other way round.
References
- France, R. T. (1985). Matthew: Tyndale New Testament Commentaries
- Strong’s Concordance
Beyond the lesson
The atmosphere at bác Bảy’s home that day reflected the sense of simplicity and humbleness. The room in which our class took place was decorated by the color of the old rugged pallet walls themselves; in the middle of the room placed a low table, we youngests sat on the floor, while ông Quang and the older ones sat on the wooden stools. And so, my class began.
It was minimal. That was probably why my focus can totally fix on the people around me and my “lesson”, and I was emotionally overwhelmed. It had been so long since I felt such immense affection for mere togetherness. It was like the re-appearance of something so familiar, and it was beautiful. And because beautiful things make you cry, I cried. We held each other’s hands as we recited Our Father in Greek, and again my eyes blurred with tears. I had been deeply touched by those tiny movements I normally considered elementary, and for that I was constantly tearing up. Before, I was able to see it within the people in front of me there, but it was not until that moment that I, accidentally I might say, experienced that togetherness myself. I didn’t know how I entered that realm, I just simply did. Just as I’ve told Andy, growing up for me is like earning the “em” – rather than the “sym”, to your “pathy”. And in random moments like that, I immerse in acknowledgement of my being and the beauty of being together.
Once my “classmates” told each other that I am a young tree that needs proper nourishment to grow. They might not know they themselves are also the nourishment. I am blessed to get to be with these people of different ages (some my grandpa’s age) and backgrounds, whose love for knowledge never seems to cease, whose determination and patience make my so-called perseverance seem ridiculous.
I am blessed for this education journey I am on.

